On the path of establishing in the SELF, mind should be convinced by you to marry or integrate with the intellect. Once mind peacefully rest in the authority of the intellect then the Grace start falling upon you for further growth.
It’s our mind which need to be convinced through our mind only, as if there are two seperate mind but actually second mind role is played by the intellect only.
Every day morning, evening convince your mind to settle down, slowly and gradually it will . Then the path will become very easy as surrender and devotion takes us to supreme SELF.
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