In next ten years slowly destroy your I and mine.
One will enjoy changing nature , reduced Ego, increasing patience , compassion , love and gratitude. This change in many ways beneficial to ones health, family and profession. Better relationships develop.
As you get close to your death ,this destruction will help in reducing mind and body attachment , creating new bond with ones own SELF ,same SELF which only remain at the time of death.
So infact one remain same after death too. It just need total destruction of ME before death touch this body and mind.