Every work we do is for gaining appreciation in other people eyes. Whether you do work at home , office, family, social gatherings.
On the basis of those judgements, people form an opinion, attitude, personality of others.
One should keep sometime every day for his or her personal inner introspection , opinion about own self progress. Please spend more time with yourself to progress in your inner journey. Once you will reach your inner destination.
Everything outside will change for the best life can throw.
Trust it.